If you are a man, you may have asked this question many times, why are women attracted to bad boys, and not nice guys?
Bad boys are cocky arrogant, self-centered, egotistical, and selfish, and yet, they always seem to easily attract women – why?
If you’ve seen the film The Colour of Money you will know that “nice guys” always finish last!
Why is this?
All these questions are easily solved…
Firstly, if you are a nice guy, you are probably making these mistakes with women.
1) FAWNING ALL OVER THEM
2) BEING TOO NEEDY OR CLINGY EARLY ON
3) NOT SHOWING THAT YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH
4) TRYING TOO HARD TO PLEASE HER
So, you are probably asking, do I have to change from being a “nice guy” to being a “bad boy” to get a girl?
The answer to that is no, absolutely not, but…
YOU DO HAVE TO DO FOLLOW THIS BELOW…
Women are not attracted to “bad boys” as such, they are attracted to the character traits of a bad boy.
Now, there is a way you can attract women you like, by still being the “nice guy” but taking on the traits of a “bad boy” – in a more positive way.
For example, bad boys are cocky.
But there’s a difference between being “cocky” and confident.
If you can exude confidence that doesn’t borderline arrogance or cockiness, then you will attract women more.
Another trait that bad boys have is their “don’t care” attitude to life, and to women.
Now, you can turn this on its head and use this trait to your advantage.
Basically a woman is attracted to men who show they aren’t “standing on ceremony” for them, and aren’t putting them on a pedestal.
If you can be confident around a beautiful woman, and show her that it will take more than her beauty to win you over, she will be more attracted to you.
She will even respect you for being one of a kind!
Women will end up with all the power if you start to worship the ground they walk on and you will end up feeling dazed and confused when you get rejected.
Another trait bad boys have is an ego.
Again, you can use this to your advantage.
This kind of relates back to being confident – if you can show a woman you are happy with your life, and are not envious of others, but have the drive and ambition to take action yourself to make your life better, they will find you more attractive.
It’s OK to have an ego if you prove to yourself that you have taken action with your own life, rather than be jealous and envious about others who have made a success of theirs.
Bad boys may find it initially easier to attract women, but they have a struggle keeping hold of a woman because….
They don’t use their character traits in the right way!
Even if a woman falls madly in love with a bad boy, they actually are really falling in love with their bad boy traits, not the bad boy!
Finally, if you can combine your “nice guy” image and use the “bad boy” traits to your advantage in a positive way, you will no longer be asking yourself, why are women attracted to bad boys?
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Originally posted 2013-01-28 08:14:41. Republished by Blog Post Promoter